What to Wear to a Wedding as a Guest: Dress Ideas for Every Dress Code

The best wedding guest dress follows the dress code, suits the season and the time of day, and is not white, ivory or cream. A midi or maxi dress is the safest length for most weddings. Below you will find what to wear for each dress code, how the season changes your choice and a few styles to start with. For a wider overview of dress types, read our complete guide to types of dresses.

What to wear by dress code

How does the season change your choice?

Spring and summer weddings

Choose light dresses, soft colours and prints. Open shoulders, halter necks and strapless cuts keep you cool. Bring a light wrap for the evening, as temperatures drop after sunset. Shop summer dresses.

Autumn and winter weddings

Deeper colours such as green, burgundy and navy work well. Choose a dress with sleeves or plan a coat or jacket over it. A midi or maxi length is also more comfortable in cold weather. Shop outerwear.

Which colours should you wear, and which should you avoid?

Avoid white, ivory and cream, as these colours are usually kept for the bride. Check the invitation too: some couples ask for a colour palette or ask guests to avoid certain colours. Soft pastels, rich jewel tones, floral prints and neutrals such as beige and dusty rose are all safe choices. Black is acceptable at most modern weddings, especially in the evening, but add colour with accessories if you want a lighter look.

Wedding guest dresses to start with

These styles come from our wedding guest dresses collection. Check each product page for fabric, fit and size details.

• Draped V-neck pleated midi dress: a midi length with a draped neckline, shown in dusty rose.
• Floral one-shoulder maxi dress: a maxi dress with a floral print and a slit.
• Yellow 3D flower midi dress: a strapless midi dress with a flower-detail bodice.
• Black floral mandarin midi dress: a midi dress with a mandarin collar and keyhole detail.

Looking for more options? Browse all elegant dresses, midi dresses and maxi dresses.

Practical tips before you buy

1. Read the dress code on the invitation. If it is unclear, ask the couple or another guest.
2. Think about the whole day. You may sit for long periods, dance and move between indoor and outdoor spaces.
3. Check the size chart. Compare your measurements with our size guide and the chart on the product page.
4. Plan your layers and shoes. A wrap or jacket and comfortable shoes make a big difference.
5. Order early. Leave time to try the dress and choose accessories before the wedding.

Related guides

• How to style a midi dress: five outfit ideas for every occasion.
• Dress fabrics explained: satin, crepe, chiffon, linen and knit, and how to care for them.
• How to choose a dress for your body shape: which necklines, waistlines and cuts to look for.

Frequently asked questions

Can I wear black to a wedding as a guest?

Yes, at most modern weddings, especially in the evening. Check the invitation first, and add colour with shoes, a bag or jewellery if you want a lighter look.

Is a midi or a maxi dress better for a wedding guest?

Both work. A midi is the most versatile for formal and cocktail weddings, while a maxi suits formal evening and black tie weddings.

Can I wear a short dress to a wedding?

It depends on the dress code. A knee-length dress is fine for casual and garden weddings, but for formal weddings a midi or maxi length is a safer choice.

What colour should I avoid at a wedding?

Avoid white, ivory and cream, and any colour the couple has asked guests not to wear.

What can I wear if the invitation does not give a dress code?

A midi dress in a soft colour or a floral print is a safe choice. Match the formality to the venue and the time of day.